la vie bohème

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what is "la vie bohème" you ask? well, wikipedia (do people still use webster’s dictionaries?) states “bohemians are associated with unorthodox or antiestablishment political or social viewpoints, which were often expressed through non-marital sexual relations, frugality, and/or voluntary poverty."  what??!

essentially it is just about living beyond convention.

as much as i hate labels and struggle to free myself from them, “bohemian” is one i can’t help but accept … gladly. see here’s why:

“bohemia is an atmosphere, a way of life, a state of mind. it’s a backlash against the bourgeois, mass market, easy access culture. it’s the apolitical freedom of ideas, clothing and behaviors gently outside the norm.

bohemians cross cultures and integrate mantras, philosophies, substances and clothing seamlessly into everyday life. bohemians despise authority, the status quo and, because they are often broke, capitalism and consumerism.

bohemians revolt against dress codes, the circadian clock, business hours, temperance, established mores, politics, the conventional idea of a work ethic and traditional living arrangements.

bohemians see all rules and most laws as an infringement of their personal freedom. bohemians have the courage to follow an ideal and forsake security; to alienate family and friends; to be, as jack kerouac put it, “yourself at whatever cost”. bohemians have the moral courage to wrestle with self-doubt, take risks, revolutionize, dismantle and shock, to embrace estrangement, controversy and poverty.

bohemians are spiritually lustful, loathe labor but love pleasure and excess. bohemians are free spirits who believe in freedom of expression.“

thank you laren stover for articulating this and writing the “bohemian manifesto”.

see i’ve been a closet bohemian my whole life and it is time for me to finally walk my talk. so in celebration of me coming out of the closet and embracing my bohemian self i am changing my blog title to "la vie bohème".

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seven rules for living

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1.) always be prepared for the best of times and the worst of times.

2.) when you look at the world try to see something new.

3.) don't steal nothing you can't take and make your own.

4.) to thine own self be true. know who you are.

5.) don't hurry love.

6.) il faut vivre et non seulement exister. one must live and not just exist.

7.) make your own rules and then break every one of them. rules are meant to be broken.

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animal spirit guides

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my friend erika just returned from her southwest road trip and emailed me a picture. it just so happened to be of a crow in front of this gorgeous backdrop. looking at it i realized that i am constantly surrounded by crows. i see them almost on a daily basis. i few weeks ago i walked out of a store to find this large beautiful black bird sitting on top of my car looking and cawing at me.

obviously there has got to be a deeper meaning to this!

so erika, being erika - a little master researcher after my own heart, relayed the following to me:
there is magic wherever crows are. they give us the message that there is magic alive in our world and this magic is ours to use and create a new world for ourselves.

when you meet a crow, he could be telling you that there will be changes in your life and that possibly you should step by the usual way you view reality and look into the inner realms …walk your talk…be prepared to let go of your old thinking and embrace a new way of viewing yourself and the world.

crows remind us to honor ourselves, our boundaries and limitations, to create the future with anticipation of receiving the gifts the universe bestows when we ask, to stay out of denial, to stay in integrity, to speak our truth. the crow is a sign of change. crow sends the message that we can change our past, our present, and mould our future.

i was wondering what was up with all these crows that seemed to linger about everywhere i went. somewhere along the line i decided to completely dismantle my life, take a huge leap of faith and fly across the ocean for a new start and all of a sudden i understand what they were trying to tell me all this time ...

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the first of many coffee shop blog posts

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so i dragged my laptop out today to find out what these "hotspot" are all about. i know, i know welcome to the 21st century, but what can i say ... i am an analog girl in a digital world. anyway so i'm sitting here at starbucks (in beautiful oakland, california) with my tea and laptop giddy with excitement.

i log on and of course the shit does not work! their server seems to be down. this is just the latest on a long list of reason why i hate starbucks or the "evil empire" as i lovingly refer to it. i can't believe i just gave them $1.45 for this tea. principally i will go through great lengths to not support the evil empire. god i hope the germans have not gone starbucks-crazy as well.

i am so thrown that i don't even know what i was going to write about. i suppose i could pack up and go to mcdonald's but i hate them almost as much as i hate starbucks. so back to the office it is!

and so my adventure in wifi failed miserably ... and people wonder why i prefer pen and paper!

= ) st

p.s. james (living, breathing wealth of information) saved the day by taking me to whole foods to scope out their wifi. law & behold their spot was actually a 'hot' one and so i sat contently munching on my california rolls as i finally managed to post this rant.

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